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Position statements that work in family court

✓ Reviewed by Sean McNamara on 2026-09-04 · Sources: official government and court-service pages linked below · Last full review 2026-09-04

A position statement is your short, written summary for a directions or interim hearing: what you want from this hearing, your response to the other side's position, and your proposal. Judges read it (often on the day); some now require them. It is the highest-value document per hour of effort that a self-representing father can produce.

The rules

  1. One to two pages. Maximum. A judge with 14 cases listed will not read six pages. Density persuades; volume annoys.
  2. Open with the ask First line: "At today's hearing I seek an order for interim contact: alternate weekends from Saturday 15th, handovers at [venue], plus midweek video calls Wed/Sun 18:00." Everything after serves that.
  3. Then the three strongest facts Not your whole case — the three facts that make your proposal obviously sensible, each with an exhibit reference (from your chronology).
  4. Then the response One short paragraph answering the other side's stated position: "The applicant proposes supervised contact indefinitely. [NACCC centre] assessment reports no risk findings (C22); Cafcass letter raises none (C23)."
  5. End with fallbacks Show you can move: "If the court prefers supported centre contact first, I propose [named centre], and will meet the cost." Flexibility framed as child-focus is not weakness; rigidity reads as case-about-you.

Copy this skeleton

SectionContentLength
HeadingCase name/number, hearing date, 'Position statement of [name] (respondent)'1 line
The askThe order(s) you seek today, specific and dated2–4 lines
Key factsThree facts with exhibits6–9 lines
ResponseAnswer to the other side's position4–6 lines
Proposal & fallbackPrimary proposal + what you'll accept2–4 lines
Statement of truthSigned and dated1 line

Tone calibration: write every sentence, then delete every adjective. "She has repeatedly and spitefully refused" becomes "Contact was refused on 3, 17, 24 April (C7–C9)". The dates convict; the adjectives acquit the other side.

Before your hearing

Turning scattered messages, notes and dates into evidence takes structure. apply this guide to your own documents — EvidenceCanvas is a guided toolkit that helps you draft a child-focused witness statement, answer a Scott Schedule point by point, and assemble a paginated court bundle. It is not a law firm and does not give legal advice.

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